When I die 

If you need to weep 

Cry for someone walking the street beside you. 

You can love me most by letting hands touch hands, and 

Soul's touch souls.

You can love me most by sharing your Simchas (goodness) and 

multiplying your Mitzvot (acts of kindness). 

You can love me most by 

letting me live in your eyes 

and not on your mind. 

And when you say 

Kaddish for me 

Remember what our 

Torah teaches, 

Love doesn’t die only 

People do. 

So, when all that’s left of me is love 

give that away too.

Michelle Yam, age 68, passed away unexpectedly from heart failure. She leaves behind a legacy of friendship, curiosity, and a life fully engaged with the world around her. Michelle was preceded in death by her beloved parents, Roberta and Jerry Yam. She is survived by her brother Keith Yam, his wife Joyce, their children Sarah and Jordan, and three great-nieces and great-nephews. Born and raised in Woodland Hills, California, Michelle later made her home in Maryland, where she spent most of her adult life. 

She built a successful career in the real estate industry, earning the respect of colleagues and clients alike, and had recently retired, looking forward to the next chapter of her life. Michelle was known for her wide circle of friends and her love of travel, exploring the world with enthusiasm and curiosity. She found great joy in Irish dancing, forming lasting friendships through this passion, and she was an avid fan of the Maryland Women's Basketball, rarely missing an opportunity to attend games and cheer on her favorite teams. Michelle’s sudden passing has left a profound emptiness for those who knew her. She left us far too soon, with dreams still forming and perhaps unfinished business yet to do. She will be remembered for her independence, warmth, and the many connections she made throughout her life. She will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by all who knew her.