Dr. Paul J. Steinberg, a beloved psychiatrist, cultural enthusiast, tennis aficionado, and beacon of humor and joy to his family and friends, passed away on December 10, 2024, surrounded by loved ones. He was 76.

Born in 1948 in Norwalk, CT, to Ben and Ethel Steinberg, Paul became a potato chip connoisseur early on, as his father owned the potato chip company "Connecticut Potato Chips". This inspired him to seek out the best potato chips throughout the country with regular shipments to his home. Paul lived a life defined by curiosity, compassion, and an unwavering zest for life. After earning his undergraduate degree from the University of Pennsylvania and his medical degree from the State University of New York Downstate Medical Center, Paul went on to complete his residency in psychiatry at George Washington University. For over five decades, he served his patients – both in private practice as well as at Georgetown University and the University of Maryland – with not just expertise but also a deep humanity that made him an extraordinary clinician. As a sports enthusiast, Paul loved working with college athletes and coaches. His relatable and open approach to mental health made him a visible and sought after individual in all aspects of campus life. In his private practice, Paul was often consulted by other clinicians for his expertise, as he was a rare psychiatrist who still provided both therapy and medication management. Paul believed in seeing the whole person, and his work left an indelible mark on the countless lives he touched. To his patients, Paul wasn't just a doctor but a confidant and advocate who always sought to understand the person beyond the diagnosis. His patients often said that it wasn't just his skill but his humanity that made him an exceptional doctor. In keeping with his love of learning, Paul often hosted soirees in his home, inviting his colleagues to engage in stimulating discussions with local authors and scientists.

But Paul was so much more than his career. He was a man who truly embraced life's richness. An appreciator of culture, he was equally at home watching stand-up comedy, devouring a great novel, or debating the subtleties of a film with family and friends. Ironically, one of Paul's favorite films was "Obit" about the team of obituary writers at the New York Times. Paul didn't just consume art; he lived it, approaching life with an artist's eye for beauty and an earnest curiosity that kept him forever young. His flair for bold colors (mainly purple – the healing color) and playful style reflected his vibrant personality and refusal to take himself too seriously.

Paul's passions were vast and varied. He was a formidable and competitive tennis player, known for his sharp backhand and even sharper wit. Matches with Paul weren't just games—they were events, filled with laughter and lively commentary that made everyone feel part of the fun. He also had a legendary sense of humor, turning even mundane moments into laugh-out-loud anecdotes. Whether on the court or at home, he never took himself too seriously, always ready with a clever quip or self-deprecating joke that left everyone in stitches.

Paul was also an accomplished writer, using his eloquence and sharp intellect to share his insights with the world. He published numerous Op-Eds in prominent newspapers, tackling topics ranging from mental health to social justice to sports with thoughtfulness and wit. His writing was a reflection of his deep empathy and ability to find humanity in even the most complex issues. Paul later authored A Salamander's Tale, a deeply personal memoir chronicling his 40-year battle with prostate cancer, which unbelievably is not what ultimately cut his life short. The book, a blend of humor, resilience, and honesty, served as both an inspiration and a comfort to countless readers facing their own health challenges. Writing was another way Paul connected with people, sharing his story to uplift and empower others.

Above all, Paul's greatest joy was his family. His 53-year love story with his wife, Helen, was the foundation of a home filled with warmth, intellectual debate, and laughter. Together, they raised two extraordinary daughters, Miritte and Arielle, each a reflection of his unique spirit. Miritte inherited Paul's love of sports and zest for life. As a social worker, she is continuing Paul's passion for helping others. Miritte and her husband, Blake, gave Paul the gift of a grandson, Jake, whose wittiness, adventurous spirit and mischievous humor brought him endless joy. Arielle shared Paul's artistic soul, channeling her creativity into her work as a painter, sculptor, and photographer. Paul was her biggest fan, always marveling at her talent and proudly championing her work. Paul's empathy and compassion live on in Arielle. She and her husband, Jason, built a beautiful life together, and Paul adored their son, Ethan, who shares Paul's curiosity, kindness and love of reading. Whether playing games, sharing stories, or simply basking in their presence, Paul cherished every moment with his grandchildren, whose humor and energy lit up his world. Always sharing his endless trove of stories and wisdom, he reveled in the joy of seeing life through their eyes. His unwavering support and infectious spirit made him a cherished figure in their lives.

Paul was not just a father and grandfather; he was a constant supporter and a loving presence in every endeavor his family pursued. His curiosity extended to the lives of those he loved, and he delighted in every detail of their passions and accomplishments. His legacy is one of compassion, humor, and an unshakable love for life. He approached every day with an earnestness that inspired those around him and a joy that was simply contagious. His family, friends, patients, students, and everyone who knew him will forever carry his light in their hearts.

In addition to his wife, daughters and grandsons, Paul is survived by his brother, David Steinberg (Maureen Michael), nephews, Zak Katz (Nathaniel Ament-Stone) and Elan Katz (Adrian Lee), brothers-in-law, and many Steinberg cousins.

May his memory be a blessing.

Funeral services will be held on Friday, December 13, 2024, 10am, Adas Israel Congregation in Washington, DC with interment to follow at Garden of Remembrance Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the National Alliance on Mental Illness ( nami.org ) or the Home Run Baseball Camp (information below).

National Alliance on Mental Illness
Web: http://nami.org

Home Run Baseball Camp
4410 Massachusetts Avenue NW, Washington DC 20016

Checks can be made out to "HRBC - Breuer Fund/Paul Steinberg Scholarship" and sent to the address above.